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This Weekend’s Letter is the Letter B
This weekend, for Joy and I, revolves around the second letter of the alphabet, the letter “B”. “B” can stand for so many things! Balloons, birthdays, bonfires and bologna all begin with it. But as you...
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Another Step on the Journey
Guest Post by JoyI know it has been a long time since I have written. The past few months have marked some major milestones for Jake and I, but the growth has brought a certain amount of pain, and not...
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Shopping Even a Husband Can Enjoy
The holidays are, of course, prime shopping season. Personally, I’m a typical guy–shopping really isn’t my thing. If I need an item, I’ll head to the store or mall or wherever, I’ll buy it, and then...
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Sleeping Plugged
I do believe that there is nothing that Joy likes better in the entire world than a nice, hard penis in her bottom. Oh, she likes nice, hard penises in general, and can enjoy them most any way, but in...
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Love-Hate Relationship
Joy hates to have her breasts spanked.It hurts, after all. Whether I use my hands, or a flogger, or our lovely crop, there’s no doubt that it causes pain. Plus, it’s not pain that ceases immediately...
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Necessary Praise
Let’s talk for a moment about praise.In most avocations, praise for good performance is both expected and encouraged. “Good job!” “Well done!” “Attaboy!” or “Attagirl!” Expressions of appreciation and...
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A Plug for a Close Friend
We possess quite an impressive BDSM equipment/toy arsenal here at Jake and Joy’s. We own all sorts of vibrators, a collection of dildos and harnesses, as well as plentiful paddles, floggers, straps and...
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A Proper Blow Job
Blow jobs are kind of like pizza. Even when they’re bad, they’re still pretty good. Joy has considerable talent in the field of blow jobs, and regardless of the style or position she delivers one in,...
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Fun with Inflatables
Sometimes Joy needs to feel full, you know? Oh, I don’t mean the “I just had a big meal” kind of full. I mean…full, as in her body has been well-and-truly filled. I know Joy often wants and needs to...
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Best Guinea Pig
These days, BDSM is almost trendy–witness the success of Fifty Shades! It definitely has not been that way for long, however. Even a couple of decades ago, BDSM took place very much in the shadows,...
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Prove You Are Stronger
Continuing my discussion of taking a forceful approach (see my last post), one of the things that Joy really likes (translated: gets very excited by) is to feel that she is being physically...
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A Little Discipline
I received a question the other day from a reader in a budding D/s relationship. He is the Dominant half, and, paraphrasing, he asked me this: “Do I really have to discipline my wife? It seems like I’d...
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Leather Cuffs and Silken Bonds – the Book
I have finally completed something I’ve been threatening to do for a long time. I have written an e-book. Joy assisted in both the editing as well as adding a few contributions of her own. It’s called...
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Skin-on-Skin
I find that physical contact, bare skin to bare skin, is highly beneficial in a couple’s relationship. Note that I’m not referring simply to sex in this case, though sex certainly does bring...
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Friday Adventure Recipe (Christmas Edition) – Spanking and Coming
Recipe for Spanking and ComingOkay, push has come to shove. Tonight’s the night when people really find out whether they are on the naughty list or the nice list! Will Santa be kind or deliver nothing...
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The Virtues of Prompt Discipline
My experience, both within my relationship with Joy and also within my professional career, is that discipline, in opposition to revenge, is a dish best served hot. In other words, the best time to...
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First Review
Just got the very first review of my e-book on BDSM, Exploring Dark Dreams, on Amazon. I don’t know who this reviewer is, but thanks very much for the kind words, and glad you enjoyed reading it. Hope...
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Thanks for the Kind Words
Thanks very much to those who have purchased my eBook, “Exploring Dark Dreams: A Beginner’s Practical Guide to BDSM”, and thanks especially to those who have been willing to review it on Amazon! Here’s...
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D/s Contract
I thought visitors might be interested in reading a sample of the contract that Joy and I have put in place. For a good portion of our BDSM relationship, I felt that a contract really wasn’t necessary...
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Nipple Stimulation
Joy has wonderful breasts. If you look at the image that accompanies this post, you can see what I mean. Her breasts are aggressively feminine! Joy’s nipples assert themselves. When excited, they pop...
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